It's hard to show respect and understanding for something or someone you cant see or hear..

It's even harder to talk to someone or something you cant see and hear without thinking your going slightly insane..

Being open to such beliefs can give and allow you to have your own proof that life exists in this way

What we expeience when we become "open" only comes to a few of us but for those few some truly lovely changes can take place in your lives...

I wish you all the same love and light that spirit gave me.

Firstly, thank you for taking the time to read through my website.

It's nice to see that people are taking a interest in the spiritual side of life.

I'm only happy to help you if you need anything else if I can.

This page is basically about me, and some of my experiences, how I have developed my abilities and what I’m up to now and will hopefully give you a insight into what type of person I am.

My work over the past 6 years has took me to Scotland,

Where I have done a number of readings for people and currently

I have 2 Reiki students studying with me both at different stages in their development.

Wales where I also have a Reiki student and who is also studying Shamanic Healing with me,

Ireland , Israel , Cyprus , America , Australia , New Zealand The Russian Federation, Mexico and South Africa.

I have been contacted by people from these countries and completed Distant Readings for people and lately I have been asked to read for a client who lives in Germany... and in Norway

Of course the United Kingdom where I live and have done a number of readings for people so far to date all over the country.

I also conduct regular readings via Telephone

for a very well known Media Group 

So here’s a bit about how I discovered what I am and where things are going now....

I had my first encounter with things of a spiritual nature and things I didn’t understand at the age of 3… in my aunts house ... I used to see a lady there and talk of people coming and going in her house, but she couldn't recognise or understand who I was talking about...

My Aunt used to look after me as my parents were at work, from what I remember I spent every day at my aunts house before joining school so my memories of her house and what happened are very real to me still.

I remember she used to pick me up from my parents house and take me to hers,

I remember I used to sit in her front room where I’d play cars and do things 3 year olds do.

.. On one morning in the middle of what I think was summer or spring,

I was sitting playing in her front room and saw someone standing in front of me who i'd never seen before..

I remember the whole thing and remember not feeling uncomfortable, but remember not wanting to look but was wondering at what I was looking at..

I must have just carried on playing and must have forgotten about what i saw.

The next day the same thing happened, but I was a little more curious and I decided to look this time..

From what I actually fully remember of all of this.

I wasn't scared at all more confused than anything as at the age of 3 you don’t really understand a lot do you!

From the moment I finally decided to look at what i was seeing at the first few times it was a blurred image but after a few times of seeing this I could make out it was a woman, she was very tall and slender, who had lovely dark hair that now days would be called a spiral perm.

At first I thought my aunt had a friend in her house and the friend was coming to check on me everyday.. make sure I hadn’t been or wasn’t being naughty..!!!

Well, technically yes she was a friend.. just not a physical one..! This was my first memory of anything to do with the spirit world.. little did I know at that stage what she was or what role she would play later on in my life or that this would be my last contact with spirit people, or discarnate spirits.

As I can remember the days that summer come and went.. years seemed to fly by,

I can remember wondered who the lady was,

I often use to wonder about her so I asked my aunt who she was a few times..

The first time she said she didn’t know who I was talking about, and just looked at me in a strange way.

All I remember her saying was " I don’t know darling who she is, who are you talking about?"

so I asked again and I got told "ooh.. stop talking silly there is no-one else here apart from me and you" and each day for a while, I'm not sure how long, but the lady I kept seeing returned..

So I kept asking who she was!

Eventually, I spoke about her everyday to my aunt,

I remember telling her about her coming and sitting in the chair in her front room, in the end

I remember getting smacked.. and told off.. for telling about the lady I kept seeing.

 

I remember crying and telling my mum about it when she picked me up... from that day on the lady in the white dress stopped coming.

I didn't see the lady i'd seen in my aunts house many years after that point,

I didn't go back to my aunts house for many years..

yet as I grew-up I had such fond memories of playing with my toys, and of the times I spent there i'd remembering how the house felt but my main memory is of a huge real coal fire that used to enchant me as i watched the flames dance around.

I kept wondering who the lady was for some considerable time after, and then I forgot all about her.

Years seemed to fly by ...

As I got older I use to wonder if I had imagined the whole thing or if I had seen a ghost, a whole number of things went through my mind never really thinking about it too much but as I got older i'd daydream about the whole thing.

The next thing I recall about all this was I remember being at school and thinking about the lady i'd seen all them years ago and getting told off for daydreaming by the teachers.

Then when I got to my early 20’s I had some difficulties with a couple of situations that arose due to these i suffered some emotional upset from these situations.

After a lot of trying to find myself through these events and asking some pretty harsh questions to fresh air, as it seemed no one else could answer what I was wanting to know..

and in my opinion and understanding due to these events taking place I eventually found out who this lady in white was when I was 24.. almost 20 years later, through the events that took place and through what had happened in my early 20's.

I remember standing at the back door of the house, I was living in floods of tears one Saturday autumn afternoon, and hearing a voice say.. "come on chin up, I haven't been helping you prepare yourself all these years doing nothing!" .. half surprised by the voice i could hear and thought someone had caught me crying..!

I looked round stopped crying expecting to see someone standing there and saw I actually saw...

no-one.. !

For weeks I wondered what I had heard, didn’t know if it was me being upset and maybe hearing things not really there, and at one stage thought I was going mad with the stress from all the turmoil or maybe my mental and emotional state at the time,

SO.. I questioned everything I possibly could...and unfortunate it almost haunted me for months.

I even thought and asked people weather or not it was someone outside who i'd heard talking, or who had seen me crying... but nothing made sense I thought.. perhaps a neighbour on the telephone to a close relative offering some comfort in distress and I had overheard it??

After a few more weeks of going through a very turbulent time I decided and went to see a medium, due to what was happening in my life,

At the time i didn’t know what was drawing me to this particular name i kept being given.. which turned out to be the mediums name..

all I knew was I felt I needed to get some help from someone and the doctor was the last place I wanted to go and explain I I had seen and heard things!

Before i could get a appointment with the medium...

My mum had took me to the Doctor and asked me to explained what was happening to me to the doctor .. which really want a good idea!

strangle as it is.. the doctor sent me to somewhere where I really did not think id end up... and that place ended up being ac Spiritualist Church!

After seeing the doctor I decided that I perhaps needed to go see someone who may understand things what I was experiencing as in a medium, So i kept the appointment i had made.. and did go to the Spiritualist church also.

I had originally gone to the Medium thinking she would tell my future and tell me the outcome to one of the situations that seemed to be haunting me at that time, and tell me all would be well but in actual fact I got quiet the opposite..

The Medium told me a number of things and gave me proof of things going on around me in my life that she couldn't possibly know, such as the coal fire in my aunts house, that i use to sit by and see the lady who wore a white dress 20 odd years ago..

She confirmed what I had seen there also by describing the lady to me i'd seen in my aunts house as i remember her..

She gave me dates that she couldn't possibly know,

I remember I was so shocked by it all at the time.

The medium also told me about Hannah another of my guides who at this time I didn't know about... I didn’t even know I had a spirit guide!

While I was with this Medium she told me a awful lot about my life why I was experiencing these happenings, how I ended up getting into or involved in them, and how without really realising it I had started something truly wonderful she also told me how I was helping people without really knowing it.

I went away from the Medium feeling like i had been put on cloud 9

she asked by her to speak to these people she had mentioned, and referred to as "guides" she called them "spirit guides"..

So sceptical and reluctantly I began speaking to Hannah and asking for help, also speaking to the lady who i'd seen with in my aunts house and asked .. what was happening in my life at the time?

It felt rather weird laying in bed and talking to someone who wasn't there but I didn’t really have long to wait to find out that what I was doing was linking with spirit.

I meditated daily for that entire month and near the end of that month I was almost about to give up as I had nothing from talking to them and getting nothing back...and then I started to get answers mainly as I was talking to these people every night..

I had dreams and pictures in my mind of people and names.. memories from being a child that i had forgot... and when I went back and thought of what i had asked... I realised I had been given a message within the images , pictures, and dreams.

Ever since I first started to understand things of a spiritual nature and things did happen for a reason, that these things were real, what I could see, and sometimes hear my life changed.

I have had numerous times and events as I call them that have given me proof that spirit are actually real, and their help and assistance just seemed to land in my lap some days and without it i honestly can't say where i'd be where i am now.. but one things for sure I’m better off than i was!

Unfortunately, and from my experience of dealing with them..

Spirit guides can give no proof of who they are or act as proof as they can be made up information, where as direct spirit communication is of a different sort..

Please understand that as a Medium .. I'm no Doris Stokes, and i don't pretend to be anyone famous or special.. I’m simply a normal person and i'm slowly learning to uncover and understand what all these people that I seem to bump into do in our lives, and I hope that if any of you reading this will openly accept that this way of life is truly a lovely and beautiful journey.

Believe me I may sound mad, have a huge imagination, and one things for sure i wouldn't put all this on a website to embarrass myself any more than what I’ve suffered already from family and friends..

Through reading through some of these experiences and what I claim to have had happen you will automatically be inclined to think that, but I can assure you I am as sane as the next person..

I do the same things that you all do but i have a different understanding or way of living my life.. that's the only difference.

I don't try to be what i'm not, I am genuine and honest, sincere, and I work with integrity, which is why I work how I work and from the way I work aspire to a lady called "Anne" the Medium I went to see first, "Anne"... gave me hope, encouragement, a new breath of life, and for that I am forever thankful to her, and what she gives to me..

 I now give to others the best way possible and with honesty.

I won't pretend to say I liked all of these experiences, at first some were terrifying for me but I soon come to understand that these people were just as eager to help me as I wanted it. Life got a whole lot easier.

With help from whom i believe my guides and some other people coming into my life...

I recently gave up smoking i'd tried 5 times before but never got beyond the 3 weeks mark.

I desperately wanted to quit and just simply didn’t know how to, so I asked spirit for their help..

In return, a man who when he came to me referred to himself as 'A' entered my life who told me he would be here for a short time and then he would be gone.

Well.................... I stopped smoking in February 2007 and I know I have quit smoking.

'A' still pops in from time to time to see how i'm doing, reminding me how well i've done so far.

As I said earlier .... Some of you will sit here reading this and won't be able to believe what I have put here is true.. all I can say is I swear on my life that these events have taken place.. and I am the proof of that, one of them ways of me proving that everyday is that I'm a non-smoker now...

I can't make your mind up about me for you... about all of this...

you have to do that! .. if spirit can help me in this way... do you think they could help you ??

I doubt very much without A's help i'd be a non-smoker.. when I spoke to him last he said.. ''For all you give out, you get something in return''

Well I wanted to stop for 7 years but I didn't know how i helped a awful lot of people during those 7 years.. and all I had to do was ask for someone to help me stop smoking.... and there they were!

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All these experiences started for me at the age of 3 then it all went away and returned when I was 24 but throughout that time I did have what others call 'strange experiences'.

I was a very tearful child, always sensitive, and never really had any direction, all the way through my teens i'd seem to be affected by people and remark on how they were, sometimes what was wrong with them, although not at a age I could help or explain why or how I knew things about them that only they or close relatives knew.

Fear of doing that or fear of speaking to people use to be part of my life mainly because a awful lot of people look down on others and do not listen to what they are saying.. and I feel i'm right here when I say we are all guilty of judging someone by age and experience.

I often wonder when I see children that see and hear spirit what their lives would be like if their parents actually stopped and listened to them when they spoke of what the world today calls paranormal sightings, how different their lives would be, and sometimes I wishes that people would encourage their children to be open and honest about what they see when they are young for that reason.. after all we are all spiritual we just have to find it!

I think the lucky people in this world are the ones that say nothing and grow up with spirit working alongside them, knowing what they are from the word go.

Through no fault of my own I was again introduced to my guides, but it took a awful lot for them to come back into my life, and some painful memories as a child but from their return to help heal and understand their presence.

I'm helping many people now with the help of my guides, I often see other peoples guides and tell them about them, and allow them to make up their own mind about all of this, it's none of my business at the end of the day what they think… which is why I feel people come back to me.

My guides have taught me to heal myself, they have given me the connections in to other spiritual teachers, who in turn showed me how to heal some of my past, make sure my future is a good one, direct me where I’m meant to be in life and how to get there, and make some changes now to help my future. .. that help is now given to all of you...

I would like to end on this note:-

Life for sure isn't easy, unless you are born with fairly well off people around you, or are a child prodigy or genius, or you are born with no worries at all.

One things for sure your born.. you die. Nobody knows where we go after that and I can't possibly tell you like any honest medium!

I know we go somewhere.. so while you’re here enjoy it!

Get what you can in the most decent way to yourself possible and to others. I had none of these things when I was born I was brought up by a very, very loving family who wasn’t rich, but gave me what they could, in return now for what I can give I help them out with advise and guidance.

I also have a full-time job and live a normal life, I go to work, I go out, do the things normal people do, I still do housework, gardening, something you can't escape even being a medium!

I choose to do what I do as a free will gesture to spirit to say thank you for all the help they have given me. I feel in a way that I should do this for them, but in some way that words can not explain.

 

I do truly hope that you have enjoyed your experience here reading about me I have been as truthful and honest with my writings.

Please understand, working with spirit is not a easy job, it needs full-time commitment to say the least but it is very rewarding it is not something to be messed with, the spirit world are very powerful beings, but caring and honest loving people.

If you choose to work with spirit you start a lifelong relationship that you can not break .. it's called starting your spiritual pathway, so be sure this is right for you!

My life has totally changed in many ways, in turn so have I but I wouldn’t want to live without working with these people now as they have brought so much to my life that i feel i owe something our of respect for them.

One day I’ll have to stop working with spirit … but not today!

May your angels be with you and all who surround you.

J

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